Sadly, over the Christmas break, my grandfather
passed away.
I feel very fortunate that I was able to get
to know my Grandfather.
I had the chance to interact with him for 30
years.
During one of my many conversations with him while
in preschool, he introduced me to Goldfish
crackers—they quickly became and remain my favorite
snack food.
Years later, while we were discussing
different television programs, he introduced me to
the Black Adder television series – this quickly
became and remains my favorite TV show.
Naturally throughout these 30 years the specific
types of conversations varied.
I shared a link to a Shakespeare website that
he loved using.
He shared his interest in Ancient Greek and
Latin, showing me computer software he used to study
them. He
valued education and learning and was always very
supportive of my educational efforts.
Most significantly, throughout this large
span of time, there were key aspects of whom my
grandfather was that shined
through consistently.
Even
after retirement, my grandfather devoted his time to
work, for as long as he was able.
As a young child, I was captivated by my
grandfather’s home office.
Taking note of this, my grandfather would
show me around his office and introduce me to his
various office equipment and supplies.
This continued for decades.
While my knowledge of office equipment grew,
a much greater lesson was unfolding.
I was able to see him at work, including
interacting with clients.
These experiences helped me to understand
firsthand how he valued hard work and the importance
of having a strong work ethic.
He helped me to realize that regardless of
what field you want to study or career you want to
pursue, passion for what you are doing, genuine
interest, and hard work, matter, in order to achieve
success.
In
the midst of this work ethic, he
never
forgot what was really important: family.
He demonstrated time and again throughout my
30 years of knowing him that a strong work ethic
does not come at the expense of devotion to one’s
family.
On the contrary, they go together.
I will treasure every moment that I have had with my
grandfather for the rest of my life, and I am
confident the many memories that I have of him
will continue to shape my life as I continue to
grow and develop.
My
grandfather told me several stories about his time
as a soldier during World War II.
One story he shared was that he was stationed
in Japan during the reconstruction period.
Actually, he never saw combat in Japan,
because while he was traveling there on a boat,
Japan surrendered, ending the war.
He would sometimes joke that they surrendered
because they heard he was coming.
He actually enjoyed his time in Japan and was
very interested in Japanese culture.
It was common to find my grandfather listening to classical music when I visited him. During one of the many Christmases I was able to enjoy with my grandparents, I gave my grandfather the Onimusha original soundtrack as a Christmas gift. It’s an excellent CD composed by Mamaru Samaragouch, hailed as a “Digital-age Beethoven.” Here’s some great music from that CD.